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Jolly Mama takes you into the world of fertility myths and separates fact from fiction. Ready?
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Jolly Mama takes you into the world of fertility myths and separates fact from fiction. Ready?

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The pill, smoking, diet, stress and other such factors can all hinder fertility. Try to take a holistic approach if you want to have a baby but it is taking time. 

Taking the pill for too long reduces your chances of getting pregnant

TRUE AND FALSE


When stopping the pill, the communication between the brain and ovaries is supposed to resume: the ovaries get back to work, produce oestrogen, ovulate, and the corpus luteum produces progesterone.
 

However, this communication can take time to re-establish, and some women take several months to get their natural periods back[1][2][3].
 

Moreover, the hormonal ecosystem does not necessarily recover from the effects of the pill without support, and the same applies to other functions affected by the pill (liver, gut microbiome, nutrient stores, etc.). One might therefore assume this has an effect on fertility, but this effect is completely reversible over time and with appropriate supplementation.

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We are fertile as long as we have our periods

FALSE
 

Fertility declines approximately 10 years before the menopause. The average age of menopause in France is currently between 51 and 52, but 10% of women will reach the menopause before the age of 45, 1% before 40 and 0.1% before 30. While the menopause marks the end of periods, we go through a perimenopause phase years before, during which our fertility is considerably lower, with a notable decline in ovarian reserve.

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MRI scans were carried out while couples were having sex in the missionary position or doggy style! They showed that these positions may help bring sperm closer to the uterus.
Crazy, right?

Fecundability — the probability of conceiving per cycle — declines with age: from 25% per cycle at age 25, it drops to 12% at age 35 and just 6% at age 42.[4] It is therefore incorrect to equate having periods with being fertile. Fertility has two dimensions: on one hand, the chances of conception decrease; on the other, the risk of miscarriage increases[5].
The risk of miscarriage is estimated at around 12% at age 25, 20% at age 37, 30% at age 43, and rises very rapidly beyond that.[6]
Furthermore, some women with endometriosis may have regular cycles but anatomical lesions that interfere with fertilisation — such as adhesions or ovarian endometriomas.
Finally, it is important to distinguish between bleeding and periods, as "bleeding" does not necessarily mean that ovulation has occurred, as observed in anovulatory cycles.

You are not alone

A couple's fertility is not determined solely by the woman's! Men are also affected by variations in fertility, particularly if they have an unhealthy lifestyle (smoking, poor diet, etc.). Do not hesitate to involve your partner when you are trying to conceive. 

If men refrain from ejaculating for several days, it increases sperm quality

definitely FALSE


One might assume that sperm retention improves sperm quality and thus increases fertility. However, little research has been conducted on the subject.
A 2004 study showed that to produce the best possible sperm samples, one day of ejaculatory abstinence was sufficient, and that each abstinence period should not exceed ten days.
A 2018 study indeed revealed that periods of ejaculatory abstinence of more than four days had a detrimental effect on sperm.[8]
For sperm samples of optimal quality, a 2018 study recommends revising the current ejaculatory abstinence guidelines to two to seven days. It states that shortening the abstinence period may be beneficial for sperm quality.[9] This is the recommended period for a semen analysis, a male fertility test used to assess the quality of the semen and sperm. 

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Smoking reduces the chances of having a baby

TRUE


Tobacco is harmful to the fertility of both men and women. It contains more than 4,000 toxic chemical compounds, including mutagenic substances (capable of causing DNA mutations) and heavy metals (cadmium, lead).


Scientific studies have demonstrated a link between smoking and reduced fertility, and even a causal relationship between the two (strength of the link, consistency of the link, dose-dependent relationship) [10][11].
 

Available biological, experimental and epidemiological data indicate that up to 13% of infertility cases may be attributed to smoking.[12]

In men, smoking is often associated with poorer sperm quality, notably due to the presence of heavy metals.[13] Sperm parameters and the results of sperm function tests are generally worse in smokers than in non-smokers, but it has not yet been conclusively demonstrated that smoking reduces male fertility.[14]

Smoking may cause genetic and epigenetic changes that could affect fertility, although this relationship still needs to be further investigated[15]. 

Finally, smoking is associated with erectile dysfunction. According to the Journal of Andrology, men who smoke are twice as likely to experience erectile difficulties[16]. After adjusting for other factors, men who smoke more than 20 cigarettes per day are 1.5 times more likely to experience erectile dysfunction.

Smoking is therefore inadvisable for both male and female partners in couples with a history of infertility or recurrent miscarriages, particularly when semen parameters are below normal or clearly abnormal.[17]

In women, smoking is associated with:
- Greater difficulty conceiving[18][19], an effect that appears to be more pronounced with age[20]
- Damage to oocytes and ovaries, with a more rapid decline in ovarian reserve[21] and an earlier menopause (1 to 4 years earlier in women who smoke compared to non-smokers)[22][23]
- A greater rise in FSH levels (FSH stimulates follicle maturation)[24], which often leads to ovulation disorders and poorer-quality follicles
- An increased risk of ectopic pregnancy, though the mechanisms behind this are not yet fully understood[25][26][27]

Studies have shown that sperm quality is related to the degree of tobacco exposure[28]. As with women, the effect appears to be "dose-dependent".[29] 

Beyond cigarettes, the harmful effects of nicotine also need to be considered, even in those exposed to passive smoking. Researchers have observed residues of cotinine, a nicotine derivative, on the follicles of women undergoing IVF who were exposed to passive smoking. Patients with high levels of nicotine had a 52% greater risk of implantation failure and 24% fewer births[30].

Although complete cessation is preferable when trying for a baby — for both men and women — if stopping entirely is not possible, it is better to start by reducing gradually than to do nothing at all.

The good news: the damage caused by smoking is reversible!
A study by the Oxford Family Planning Association showed that a return to normal fertility was possible in ex-smokers.[31]

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It is therefore better to stop smoking if you want to increase your chances of getting a positive pregnancy test. 

At 45, you can have a child without difficulty, thanks in particular to assisted reproduction (ART)

FALSE


Unfortunately this is false, and if the ART journey has helped many couples, it is never a guarantee, even more so when you are over 40.
Fecundability, i.e. the probability of conceiving per cycle, declines with age.

It is estimated per cycle at [32]:
- 25% if the woman is 25 years old,
- 12% if she is 35 years old
- and only 6% at 42 years old.

With the cumulative effect of cycles, 60% of couples where the woman is 25 years old will have conceived after 6 months, 80% after one year and 90% after 2 years. These figures are halved for a woman aged 35 and divided by 4 at age 42! [33] These results do not take into account any possible recourse to medically assisted reproduction (MAR).

The decline in fertility with age is explained by a deterioration in the quality (eggs age) and quantity of eggs (the egg reserve diminishes), which IVF cannot improve. Medical methods mainly help to achieve better ovulation and fertilisation, but they do not eliminate all the underlying physiological factors.

The decline in ovarian reserve leads to a poorer response to ovarian stimulation, resulting in increased doses without any increase in either the quantity or quality of eggs.

From the age of 35, progesterone also decreases significantly, which also has an impact on fertility (by hindering the implantation of the fertilised egg and therefore any potential pregnancy).

This IVF or artificial insemination pregnancy rate varies primarily according to age and drops from the age of 38 [34]:> 25% before the age of 37
12% at age 38
9% at age 40
5–6% after the age of 42

Two techniques can help address this difficulty: the use, in IVF, of eggs retrieved from a younger woman (though egg donations are rare in France); and recourse to a younger "surrogate mother", which can even make "motherhood" possible after the age of 50 (though this practice is prohibited in France). In the vast majority of cases, therefore, ART will remain an uncertain remedy for the difficulties of having a child after the age of 40. [35]

You can have a child through IVF without any problems

FALSE


Assisted reproduction is sometimes treated as routine, yet it is not without physical and psychological consequences. It can be a real uphill journey. And above all, it is not guaranteed:
- The average success rate in France for artificial insemination (birth rate per artificial insemination) is 10.8%. The success rate ranges between 5 and 20% depending on the fertility clinic.[36]
- The average success rate in France for IVF (cumulative birth rate per embryo transfer) is 28.4%. The success rate ranges between 20 and 40% depending on the fertility clinic.[37]

It is therefore not a guarantee of not getting a negative pregnancy test.

Men are not affected by the decline in fertility.

FALSE


The impact of male age on the chances of conception is now widely recognised. Indeed, whilst 78% of men conceive within 6 months when they are under 25, this figure drops to just 58% for those over 35.
 

In Assisted Reproductive Technology (ART), a decline in the chances of pregnancy following intrauterine insemination and IVF[38] and an increase in miscarriages linked to male age[39] have been noted after the age of 40.
 

Men are also affected by the main enemies of fertility, such as smoking, alcohol, endocrine disruptors, stress, and even certain sporting activities that influence sperm quality and the chances of conception.[40][41]

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Outside of assisted reproduction, nothing can improve fertility

FALSE


Fertility, whether female or male, can be affected by many factors linked to our modern lifestyle: stress, poor nutrition, deficiencies, fatigue, smoking, endocrine disruptors… [42]
 

Fortunately, this is not inevitable, and there is a great deal that can be done to optimise your chances of conception.
Follicles, like sperm, take around 3 months to renew. Their quality in 3 months' time therefore reflects your current lifestyle. The more you reduce certain harmful habits such as poor diet or smoking, and the more you take care of your stress levels and your nutrition, the better your chances of conceiving. Do seek support to make the process as effective as possible. It is never too late to do things right!
 

The proportion of women reporting an inability to conceive, relative to the number of women who had tried to become pregnant, was 3.6% in 1978; this figure was 6.3% in 1988 and 11.9% in 1994. The proportion of women reporting difficulty conceiving was 14.6% in 1978, 24.8% in 1988 and 23.3% in 1994 [22].

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Common misconceptions about sex

Having sex once a week gives you every chance of getting pregnant
 

FALSE
You therefore cannot get pregnant throughout the entire cycle. It is men who are fertile all the time.
A woman is fertile for around 6 days per cycle: 5 days before ovulation, thanks to cervical mucus, and 1 day after, as the egg lives for 12 to 24 hours. Outside this fertility window, pregnancy is not possible[7].


So if you only have sex once a week, and you are fertile for just 6 days per cycle, you may fall outside the "fertility window" (a week being 7 days).
To give yourself the best chance, you need to have sex at least every 2 days during the period around ovulation. To find out when you ovulate, read our article on the subject: Why and how to calculate your ovulation date.
 

Certain sexual positions favour conception
 

TRUE/FALSE
In practice, you can get pregnant regardless of the position adopted during intercourse. No scientific study to date has shown that any particular position can favour conception.


However, in one study, researchers observed couples making love in the missionary position or doggy style whilst undergoing an MRI scan[43]. The images obtained confirmed that during intercourse in the missionary position, the penis reaches the anterior fornix with preferential contact with the anterior vaginal wall. The images obtained in the other position showed for the first time that the penis appears to reach the posterior fornix with preferential contact with the posterior vaginal wall. These positions are likely to encourage closer proximity between sperm and the uterus.


Did you know? One study confirmed the hypothesis that a man who spends more time performing cunnilingus produces an ejaculate with a greater estimated volume and potentially higher quality[44].


It is better to lie down after intercourse
 

TRUE
There is no study on the impact of position after intercourse and the chances of getting pregnant. However, studies have been carried out on insemination. Indeed, in a study of nearly 400 couples, in half of them the women got up after insemination, and in the other half they remained lying down for 15 minutes[45]. The ongoing pregnancy rate per couple was significantly higher in the immobilisation group than in the control group: 27% versus 18%. Live birth rates were 27% in the immobilisation group and only 17% in the control group.
 

Although nothing has been directly proven for sexual intercourse, it is reasonable to think that these results apply equally. In any case, you have nothing to lose by spending 15 minutes lying in your partner's arms after the act!

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