The signs of PPD can be similar to baby blues, but are more intense and longer-lasting. Signs of PPD include persistent sadness, loss of interest in daily activities, sleep disturbances, extreme fatigue, feelings of guilt or worthlessness, and sometimes suicidal thoughts. Every woman is different and may experience one, several, or all of the symptoms. These signs can affect a mother's ability to care for her child and herself (3).
Difficulty bonding with your baby
Some mothers feel a strong bond with their child from birth, while for others, this bond builds gradually. But if you are struggling to form an emotional attachment with your child, this may be a sign of postpartum depression.
Research shows that around 12% of mothers experience a delayed bond in the first two days following birth, a figure that drops to 7% after 15 days. However, among those suffering from severe postpartum depression, 57% report an impaired emotional bond with their child (4).
Social isolation, withdrawal from family or friends
This detachment linked to PPD can also extend to those around you: social isolation or withdrawal from loved ones is another common symptom of postpartum depression.
Sleep disturbances
Lack of sleep is a common complaint among new parents. Insufficient rest can lead to fatigue, irritability, and difficulty concentrating. These are factors that can worsen or contribute to the onset of PPD (5).
In turn, postpartum depression can disrupt the sleep cycle. If you find it hard to fall asleep, or conversely if you are sleeping excessively, this may be a sign not to overlook (6).
Experiencing intense negative emotions
In addition to sadness, postpartum depression can be accompanied by negative emotions such as anxiety, anger, low self-esteem, or a loss of interest in things that previously brought you joy. Many women also feel guilty for not experiencing constant maternal happiness.
It is however essential to remember that postpartum depression does not call into question your worth as a mother. It is a condition linked to a combination of factors: hormonal, genetic, psychological, and social.
Other most common symptoms of postpartum depression
The following points are characteristic of this syndrome:
- Persistent sadness or intense mood swings
- Extreme fatigue, lack of energy
- Frequent crying, without obvious reason
- Loss of interest in everyday activities
- Guilt, shame, the feeling of being a "bad mother"
- Severe anxiety, panic attacks
- Intrusive thoughts, dark thoughts, suicidal ideation
If you are experiencing these symptoms, do seek specialist advice. If in doubt, do not hesitate to contact your doctor. If you are experiencing even more intense or severe symptoms, seek help immediately.