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I don't want to breastfeed: how do you stop your milk coming in?

If you decide not to breastfeed, you will need to try to slow down and stop your milk coming in. Without any intervention, it will stop on its own within 1 to 2 weeks.
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The first days of breastfeeding can be difficult, as your milk will come in whether or not you decide to breastfeed. Here are a few key tips to help those first days go as smoothly as possible.

The first days of breastfeeding can be challenging, as your milk coming in will happen whether you choose to breastfeed or not. Here are a few tips to help those first days go as smoothly as possible. 

Tips

Avoid binding your breasts.
Apply green cabbage leaves or jasmine to reduce engorgement.
Consuming sage, chaste tree or parsley may help.

What is the milk let-down?

Colostrum production begins from birth, or even towards the end of pregnancy. It is a thick, yellow liquid, very rich in micronutrients. It will meet your baby's needs before your milk supply is established. The milk coming in is the transition from colostrum to more mature, richer milk — high in lactose — which signals the start of lactation. It is a physiological process, occurring between the second and fifth day after your baby's birth.

This milk let-down is caused by the drop in oestrogen and progesterone levels after birth. This triggers the production of another hormone, prolactin, which enables lactation. It can be accompanied by breasts that feel hard, swollen and sore. Milk coming in will happen even if you have decided not to breastfeed your baby, because — just like the delivery of the placenta — it is a physiological process that occurs in the postpartum period for all mothers.

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What medication can be used to stop milk coming in?

According to the French National College of Gynaecologists and Obstetricians, given their potential side effects, pharmacological treatments for the inhibition of lactation should not be offered routinely to women who do not wish to breastfeed.

Cabergoline

Cabergoline, marketed under the name Dostinex, has a powerful and prolonged inhibitory effect on prolactin secretion. Cabergoline can be used to stop milk coming in.

This medicine, long used as a routine treatment, is certainly effective but carries a risk of numerous serious side effects: nausea, vomiting, abdominal pain, constipation, headaches, dizziness, vertigo, fatigue, orthostatic hypotension with or without fainting episodes. Less commonly: breast tenderness, hot flushes, postpartum depression, tingling in the extremities [1].

Cabergoline has been shown to have fewer side effects than bromocriptine [2].

Cabergoline has a long duration of action, with a half-life of 63 to 69 hours. For this reason, mothers are advised to express and discard their breast milk for approximately 5 days after using cabergoline [3]. Therefore, avoid taking cabergoline for weaning purposes, as you will no longer be able to give milk to your baby.

Lisuride

Arolac, a medicine containing lisuride, can be used to stop milk coming in, primarily for medical reasons (for example, intrauterine foetal death or medical termination of pregnancy). It may also be used in cases of inhibition of milk let-down, cessation of lactation, breast engorgement, or inflammatory breast symptoms.

After childbirth, Arolac is not recommended for women with psychiatric disorders or a history of psychiatric conditions. Careful monitoring is required in cases of smoking, high blood pressure, obesity, vascular disease, or treatment with vasoconstrictive medicines [4].

Breastfeeding must not take place alongside the use of Arolac!

Bromocriptine

Bromocriptine was marketed under the names Parlodel and Bromocriptine Zentiva. It was used because it inhibits prolactin secretion.

Bromocriptine is not recommended for the routine inhibition of lactation or for the relief of postpartum pain or breast engorgement, which can be effectively managed through non-pharmacological means. However, it may be prescribed when there is a medical reason (intrauterine death, etc.).  

This follows the fact that the French national medicines safety agency issued an opinion in 2013 on bromocriptine: "The Committee for monitoring the benefit-risk ratio of health products, after deliberation, unanimously considers that the benefit-risk ratio of bromocriptine-based medicines is unfavourable for the indication 'prevention or inhibition of physiological lactation for medical reasons in the immediate postpartum period (ablactation) and in the late postpartum period (weaning)'" [5].

Indeed, bromocriptine causes side effects: hypertension, myocardial infarction, seizures, stroke, and psychiatric disorders have been reported in women treated with bromocriptine for the inhibition of lactation in the postpartum period [6].

The contraceptive pill

The contraceptive pill is sometimes recommended to stop milk coming in. Oestrogens have a negative effect on lactation, reducing milk production. They can be administered in the form of a combined contraceptive pill, once a day for one week, then stopped. The mother should notice a reduction in her milk production after 5 to 7 days [7]. 
Please note: oestrogen treatment increases the risk of thromboembolism in the mother, particularly if prescribed before 4 weeks postpartum.

ATTENTION

Whether it is medication or natural alternatives you are considering, do not use them as part of a weaning process if you are still breastfeeding, as harmful compounds may end up in your milk.

What are the natural alternatives for stopping milk coming in?

Several plants are recommended for their effect on reducing milk production in cases of oversupply or when weaning is desired [8]. These are peppermint, sage, parsley and chaste tree. 

Sage should not be used as an essential oil, as it is concentrated in thujone, which can cause convulsions. Using cut or powdered leaves, available as a culinary herb, reduces milk production. In larger quantities, it can cause tachycardia, dizziness and hot flushes. 


Caution: if you wish to reduce your milk supply with a view to weaning and you are still breastfeeding, do not use sage. It contains camphor, thujone and terpenic ketones, which are considered compounds that may induce toxic effects in newborns.

Chasteberry is a well-known dopaminergic agent and FSH suppressant. It is also known to influence lactation, but everything depends on the dose. At low doses, chasteberry increases serum prolactin levels and is considered a galactagogue; however, no scientifically valid clinical trial supports this use. Some data indicate that high doses of chasteberry decrease serum prolactin and could reduce lactation, an effect attributed to the active compounds aucubin and agnoside. It has been used to reduce excess breast milk in traditional Persian medicine [9]. 

 

Please note: as with sage, chasteberry should not be used during weaning if breastfeeding is continuing, as it acts on hormones [10]. 

Peppermint oil contains menthol, which is the active ingredient. Peppermint oil may reduce milk production when used topically [11]. 


Please note: do not use it if you are still breastfeeding. 

Parsley is thought to reduce prolactin levels and may reduce milk production when consumed as a food, such as in tabbouleh [12].

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A few natural tips to stop milk coming in

It is sometimes recommended, as a traditional home remedy, to use some green cabbage to reduce engorgement. To do this, simply apply cabbage leaves (straight from the fridge or at room temperature) to your chest. 
Indeed, some studies show that cabbage compresses significantly reduce breast hardness [13] as well as pain [14]. This effect of cabbage has even been found to be more effective than the application of cold [15].

Jasmine petals [16] (Jasminum officinale) are highly fragrant and have long been used to freshen rooms and cool the body. They have been used for centuries to treat post-partum engorgement, particularly when the mother is not going to breastfeed. The petals and essential oils are known to reduce prolactin levels and are effective at reducing milk production. 

If you have the opportunity, try a soft clay paste and apply it in a thick layer (half a centimetre) over the breast. Hold it in place with cling film and make sure to change the poultice before it dries out. Rinse off in the shower and repeat as often as you feel the need to have softer, more comfortable breasts.

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I don't want to breastfeed: how do you stop your milk coming in?

How to stop your milk coming in?

In order to stop milk coming in and reduce the associated discomfort, there are several guidelines to follow during the first few days after giving birth.

First of all, you may wish to seek support from an IBCLC lactation consultant. They are the experts in breastfeeding, and it goes without saying that they are also there to support you in situations such as stopping milk from coming in or weaning, and to help you avoid any potential complications.

The more the baby feeds, the more milk is produced. Conversely, the less the baby feeds, the less the body is prompted to meet their needs by producing an adequate supply of milk. With less stimulation, the breasts will gradually understand that there is no need to initiate an abundant milk supply.
You may choose to give your baby colostrum and then stop breastfeeding afterwards.  

Your breasts are likely to come under greater pressure if you do not drain them frequently or effectively — express just enough milk to keep them soft. Your body is designed to produce milk, and expressing it in a measured way will not cause it to produce too much, but will spare you real discomfort. When you shower, gently massage your breasts with a warm jet of water. The warmth of the water will encourage the milk to flow.

Engorgement can occur due to a greater blood flow associated with increased prolactin production. The system goes into overdrive, as it were, and your breasts become hot, shiny, and hard as rock. To prevent engorgement from worsening, it is important to allow enough milk to flow so that the breasts remain soft, and to do so regularly. Some people claim that by doing this, you risk over-stimulating your milk supply. Bear in mind that whatever happens, your body will not spontaneously stop producing milk. And rather than allowing milk to stagnate, it is always preferable to let it flow. You won't over-stimulate — rest assured. What you will avoid, however, is a serious complication.


You can also apply, for around twenty minutes inside your bra, a breastfeeding compress cold, or towels placed in the freezer. This will help promote better drainage and reduce swelling. Pack it in your hospital bag so you can find relief right from the start.

Binding your breasts: a good idea?

Breast binding means wrapping the breasts firmly. It has been used throughout history to help women stop producing breast milk.

In a study conducted in 2003 on post-partum women who were not breastfeeding, the effects of breast binding were compared to those of wearing a supportive bra [17].

Although engorgement symptoms in both groups did not differ significantly over the first 10 days, the group who wore binding experienced more pain and leakage overall. Consequently, the researchers do not recommend breast binding.

A supportive bra provides better support for sensitive breasts during movement and helps reduce discomfort.

Conclusion

If you need help stopping your milk from coming in, do not hesitate to consult an IBCLC who will be there to support and guide you through the process.

Although medications to suppress milk production are still sometimes prescribed, they are not recommended unless there is a medical reason to do so.

There are, however, natural alternatives to help reduce milk production: consuming sage, parsley or chaste tree, or applying cabbage leaf compresses to your breasts! 

Source 1: Dostinex, product information sheet.

Source 2: Aydin, Yavuz, Alev Atis, Semih Kaleli, Seyfettin Uludağ, and Nimet Goker. « Cabergoline versus Bromocriptine for Symptomatic Treatment of Premenstrual Mastalgia: A Randomised, Open-Label Study ». European Journal of Obstetrics, Gynecology, and Reproductive Biology 150, no 2 (June 2010): 203 6. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.ejogrb.2010.02.024.

Source 3: glash, Anne. « Treatment of Maternal Hypergalactia ». Breastfeeding Medicine 9, no 9 (1 November 2014): 423 25. https://doi.org/10.1089/bfm.2014.0133.

Source 4: Public medicines database, "AROLAC 0.2 mg, scored tablet", 2018.

Source 5: ANSM, "Benefit/risk ratio monitoring committee for health products", 2013.

Source 6: ANSM, "Summary of product characteristics Parlodel", 2015.

Source 7: Eglash, Anne. « Treatment of Maternal Hypergalactia ». Breastfeeding Medicine 9, no 9 (1 November 2014): 423 25. https://doi.org/10.1089/bfm.2014.0133.

Source 8: Lawrence, Ruth A., and Eleanor Hüttel. « 4.13 - Alternative Remedies, Vitamins, and Minerals ». In Drugs During Pregnancy and Lactation (Third Edition), edited by Christof Schaefer, Paul Peters, and Richard K. Miller, 803 11. San Diego: Academic Press, 2015. https://doi.org/10.1016/B978-0-12-408078-2.00038-X.

Source 9: « Chasteberry ». In Drugs and Lactation Database (LactMed). Bethesda (MD): National Library of Medicine (US), 2006. http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK501807/.

Source 10: Liu, J., J. E. Burdette, H. Xu, C. Gu, R. B. van Breemen, K. P. Bhat, N. Booth, et al. « Evaluation of Estrogenic Activity of Plant Extracts for the Potential Treatment of Menopausal Symptoms ». Journal of Agricultural and Food Chemistry 49, no 5 (mai 2001): 2472 79. https://doi.org/10.1021/jf0014157.

Source 11: Eglash, Anne. « Treatment of Maternal Hypergalactia ». Breastfeeding Medicine 9, no 9 (1 November 2014): 423 25. https://doi.org/10.1089/bfm.2014.0133.

Source 12: Eglash, Anne. « Treatment of Maternal Hypergalactia ». Breastfeeding Medicine 9, no 9 (1 November 2014): 423 25. https://doi.org/10.1089/bfm.2014.0133.

Source 13: Lim, A-Reum, Ji-Ah Song, Myung-Haeng Hur, Mi-Kyoung Lee, and Myeong Soo Lee. « Cabbage compression early breast care on breast engorgement in primiparous women after cesarean birth: a controlled clinical trial ». International Journal of Clinical and Experimental Medicine 8, no 11 (15 November 2015): 21335 42. 26885074

Source 14: Boi, Boh, Serena Koh, and Desley Gail. « The Effectiveness of Cabbage Leaf Application (Treatment) on Pain and Hardness in Breast Engorgement and Its Effect on the Duration of Breastfeeding ». JBI Library of Systematic Reviews 10, no 20 (2012): 1185 1213. https://doi.org/10.11124/01938924-201210200-00001.

Source 15: Wong, Boh Boi, Yiong Huak Chan, Mabel Qi He Leow, Yi Lu, Yap Seng Chong, Serena Siew Lin Koh, and Hong-Gu He. « Application of Cabbage Leaves Compared to Gel Packs for Mothers with Breast Engorgement: Randomised Controlled Trial ». International Journal of Nursing Studies 76 (November 2017): 92 99. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.ijnurstu.2017.08.014.

Source 16: Lawrence, Ruth A., and Eleanor Hüttel. « 4.13 - Alternative Remedies, Vitamins, and Minerals ». In Drugs During Pregnancy and Lactation (Third Edition), edited by Christof Schaefer, Paul Peters, and Richard K. Miller, 803 11. San Diego: Academic Press, 2015. https://doi.org/10.1016/B978-0-12-408078-2.00038-X.

Source 17: K, Swift, and Janke J. « Breast Binding... Is It All That It's Wrapped up to Be? » Journal of Obstetric, Gynecologic, and Neonatal Nursing: JOGNN 32, no 3 (June 2003). https://doi.org/10.1177/0884217503253531.

[1] Dostinex, technical data sheet.

[2] Aydin, Yavuz, Alev Atis, Semih Kaleli, Seyfettin Uludağ, et Nimet Goker. « Cabergoline versus Bromocriptine for Symptomatic Treatment of Premenstrual Mastalgia: A Randomised, Open-Label Study ». European Journal of Obstetrics, Gynecology, and Reproductive Biology 150, no 2 (June 2010): 203 6. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.ejogrb.2010.02.024.

[3] glash, Anne. « Treatment of Maternal Hypergalactia ». Breastfeeding Medicine 9, no 9 (1 November 2014): 423 25. https://doi.org/10.1089/bfm.2014.0133.

[4] Base de données publique des médicaments, "AROLAC 0,2 mg, comprimé sécable", 2018.

[5] ANSM, "Commission de suivi du rapport bénéfice/risque des produits de santé", 2013.

[6] ANSM, "Résumé des caractéristiques du produit Parlodel", 2015.

[7] Eglash, Anne. « Treatment of Maternal Hypergalactia ». Breastfeeding Medicine 9, no 9 (1 November 2014): 423 25. https://doi.org/10.1089/bfm.2014.0133.

[8] Lawrence, Ruth A., et Eleanor Hüttel. « 4.13 - Alternative Remedies, Vitamins, and Minerals ». In Drugs During Pregnancy and Lactation (Third Edition), edited by Christof Schaefer, Paul Peters, and Richard K. Miller, 803 11. San Diego: Academic Press, 2015. https://doi.org/10.1016/B978-0-12-408078-2.00038-X.

[9] « Chasteberry ». In Drugs and Lactation Database (LactMed). Bethesda (MD): National Library of Medicine (US), 2006. http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK501807/.

[10] Liu, J., J. E. Burdette, H. Xu, C. Gu, R. B. van Breemen, K. P. Bhat, N. Booth, et al. « Evaluation of Estrogenic Activity of Plant Extracts for the Potential Treatment of Menopausal Symptoms ». Journal of Agricultural and Food Chemistry 49, no 5 (May 2001): 2472 79. https://doi.org/10.1021/jf0014157.

[11] Eglash, Anne. « Treatment of Maternal Hypergalactia ». Breastfeeding Medicine 9, no 9 (1 November 2014): 423 25. https://doi.org/10.1089/bfm.2014.0133.

[12] Eglash, Anne. « Treatment of Maternal Hypergalactia ». Breastfeeding Medicine 9, no 9 (1 November 2014): 423 25. https://doi.org/10.1089/bfm.2014.0133.

[13] Lim, A-Reum, Ji-Ah Song, Myung-Haeng Hur, Mi-Kyoung Lee, et Myeong Soo Lee. « Cabbage compression early breast care on breast engorgement in primiparous women after cesarean birth: a controlled clinical trial ». International Journal of Clinical and Experimental Medicine 8, no 11 (15 November 2015): 21335 42. 26885074

[14] Boi, Boh, Serena Koh, et Desley Gail. « The Effectiveness of Cabbage Leaf Application (Treatment) on Pain and Hardness in Breast Engorgement and Its Effect on the Duration of Breastfeeding ». JBI Library of Systematic Reviews 10, no 20 (2012): 1185 1213. https://doi.org/10.11124/01938924-201210200-00001.

[15] Wong, Boh Boi, Yiong Huak Chan, Mabel Qi He Leow, Yi Lu, Yap Seng Chong, Serena Siew Lin Koh, et Hong-Gu He. « Application of Cabbage Leaves Compared to Gel Packs for Mothers with Breast Engorgement: Randomised Controlled Trial ». International Journal of Nursing Studies 76 (November 2017): 92 99. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.ijnurstu.2017.08.014.

[16] Lawrence, Ruth A., et Eleanor Hüttel. « 4.13 - Alternative Remedies, Vitamins, and Minerals ». In Drugs During Pregnancy and Lactation (Third Edition), edited by Christof Schaefer, Paul Peters, and Richard K. Miller, 803 11. San Diego: Academic Press, 2015. https://doi.org/10.1016/B978-0-12-408078-2.00038-X.

[17] K, Swift, et Janke J. « Breast Binding... Is It All That It's Wrapped up to Be? » Journal of Obstetric, Gynecologic, and Neonatal Nursing: JOGNN 32, no 3 (June 2003). https://doi.org/10.1177/0884217503253531.

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